Do I have to give wedding money in this situation? - nice things to put in wedding cards
I have a friend at work over the last 3 years. I have been married for 8 months and she came to my wedding, and he gave me a card with $ 50 in it. 1 month ago, he married in court for me and my husband in a restaurant in his congratulations. Then, last week, on Thursday, had a small private wedding in the church here as his parents and brothers and sisters ... maybe 10 people, so I was not there (which is right ...). My question is, I'll get a card from his marriage, but when it came to the wedding and when my husband and I had to eat after their marriage court ... I make money on the card? I know it is always good, and if it would certainly be a marriage (I know what it will cost at least twice that of the plate) ... But it would be rude of me if I don 't? And if I were you, you are a note and I think I was rude?
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Nice Things To Put In Wedding Cards Do I Have To Give Wedding Money In This Situation?
12 comments:
Put money on the card. You have to prepare for dinner. Putting money in a card is always a sign of bad taste.
Put money on the card. You have to prepare for dinner. Putting money in a card is always a sign of bad taste.
I am all for giving money as a wedding gift, but I think that your situation requires a monetary donation. The food was his way of celebrating their marriage.
But as it is a good friend, I hit him a little something. a frame, a bottle of wine, so you do not. If you can not afford it, do not worry. But seriously, it would be something small and Nice.
If I am more than happy with a nice dinner paid by me, I think it is enough that in a way that was a gift, you must give money. I do not think someone would realize care or even real.
Look at it this way. If you had some money would you have liked? Who would you do? It? itself? or because he has admitted and must give in return?
Basically, you know the answer.
You should not feel obligated to do something just because he or she has done ...
Good luck!
You must never make a gift. I think the food was very good considering the particular situation.
Buy a card and give a gift voucher $ 25 target. Problem solved.
Good luck
In my opinion, if we wanted more gifts from around the world, this marriage then invited. I think it's just his way of completion. If you give money, but if you do not, then that's fine too. You are his friend and was there for them and that's what matters. Peachy and I think you have understood the wrong question ... She would not say whether there was a big wedding that she would give her money was. He said that if we are invited to have. There is a difference there.
Lee_lee --
Some people give gifts allow them, but you should never feel obliged to account for the favor of 'return label. Gifts do not have the heart, because he felt needd.
I would say that you will receive a card with a note of congratulations, but if you do not want to give money. Do you have for dinner, which was made very beautiful, and I'm sure they appreciated.
Do what is good for you, and if she says something (I doubt it will say) simply: "I realized that eating was a gift from us."
Frankly, I have a lot, not stress
EDIT: I do not know why certain answers are unpleasant - it is equipped with leading them to eat - it is a gift of money and time. For me personally it's more of a little money on a slide card.
Does it matter what you are looking for in terms of ethical and financial?
If you think this means and be satisfied with the dinner, but if you look like you then I would buy a little something so they know how much you paid if your concerns.
Does it matter what you are looking for in terms of ethical and financial?
If you think this means and be satisfied with the dinner, but if you look like you then I would buy a little something so they know how much you paid if your concerns.
Oh my God ... married and an honor for me that marriage and why you should not be happy and honored him again? Does it matter if there is a big wedding? What kind of friend you are a gift to the foundation of the extravagance of a wedding? If we had to eat it ... but this was an act of kindness ... No marriage!
IF YOU ARE A FRIEND .... . act Why should a gift if he had a great marriage, and nothing, because I have one big?
What is the difference ... She is a friend and she was happy for you ... You need to honor, friendship and support back to halt their donations in the amount of money into an event.
Personally, I do not think anything about it ... and it ... But as she said it really bothered me.
If not, you say to yourself ... she had a big wedding would be something ..... I do not think anything about it ... but according to your question about the size of the wedding.
Maybe they could not afford a big wedding .... for help andsomething.
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